On Relationship ‘Difficulties’

HealthyRelationships

Anger
Resentment
Frustration
Impatience
Aggravation
Irritation

Relationships – of ALL kinds from intimate to professional to wholly casual have their ups and downs – just like ALL of us. 😀

And just like with ANYthing, which of our thoughts and feelings we choose to give our attention to proliferates more of the same.

Sooooooooo…..if yar hav’n a bit of a ‘down time’ in ANY of your relationships, make the CHOICE to ACTively seek out thoughts, memories, feelings that are “up”, that are reMINDers of yOUR Authentic LOVE/like/healthy relations with this individual.

As with anything we are seeking to make manifest…….feelings of doubt//fear may arise, but NOT for us to expand there upon but for us to transcend there withIN.**

?**of course when speaking to relationships, I am NOT, N-O-T speaking to abusive relationships or to fears//doubts regarding BEing in an abusive relationship.

This IS a wholly different situation.

That to which I speak herein IS with respect to ‘relatively speaking’ healthy relationships which as with anything have their ups and downs…..from parent-child relationships to siblings, friends, lovers, partners, business associates, etc….

The main point IS we ALL have ‘negative’ thoughts from time to time…..go through ‘negative stages’ which can last an hour, a day, a week, or even a month…….depending of course on the choices we make regarding which thoughts and feelings we are feeding our attentions to.

Negative feelings do not have to be seen as ‘negative’ in the ‘bad’ sense per se, if we choose to use them to transcend into loving feelings.

The same holds true for things [outside of healthy relationships, such as jobs, objects of our desires, etc…] we are seeking to make manifest in our lives as well.

Manifestation IS based withIN TRUST……doubts can and do arise.

They are not to be feared or dreaded but USED as the signals they are of something withIN us that requires our LOVing attention to transcend out of fear into LOVE.

They – our negative thoughts and feelings can be seen as helpFull tools, if you will, in our quest to manifest our heart’s desires, starting with – of course – BEing LOVE. ;D

la la la la LOVE,
Roni*

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