The ONLY ‘Should BE’ is to BE Authentically YOU

We are sooo good at BEing sooo hard on ourSELVes BEcause we are sooo busy comparing & competing with everyone else, instead of seeing the AWEsomeness that is WE.

We can get caught up in the “should BE’s”, such as, “by this time in my life, I should BE….”.

Uniquely YOU

These ‘should BE’s’ are ILLUSORY.

Sure, there may BE many people in yOUR surround whom are achieving many ‘should be’s’ that YOU are NOT. These people may BE yOUR closest friends and family, and more over, THEY may BE looking at YOU and wondering why YOU are NOT DOing these ‘should BE’s’ too.

It IS ALL ILLUSORY!!!

What ‘should BE’ today is a ‘should NOT BE’ tomorrow.

Here’s a PERFECT example we can ALL relate to:
When my mom got married, she was 20 years old!
That’s right, 20!
And when she had me, she was 21.
Are YOU gasping as YOU read this?
Well, that’s what one of the ‘should BE’s’ was during that period of our collective BEingness.

There are women today who are giving birth to their first child at 30, 40 and some even 50, a major ‘should NOT BE’ when my mom was having me.

The point IS, what ‘should BE’ for one, is NOT necessarily what ‘should BE’ for ALL, even if the majority are DOing it.

YOU have to DO what is RIGHT for YOU, {ALLways with the understanding that, that which is right for YOU causes NO HARM to SELF or others}, even if that means NO ONE else in yOUR surround can understand or relate, even if ALL those in yOUR surround tend to judge & put YOU down. Stand tall, Stay True, YOU have to BE who YOU ARE, not what others want YOU to BE, or what YOU think YOU ‘should BE’ based upon the current malleable trends of the collective majority.

BE WHO YOU ARE, Authentically!

Take a MOMENT, RIGHT NOW & reflect upon ALL YOU HAVE accomplished, upon the Fantabulousness that is YOU, when YOU are BEing the “I” in ME, YOU LOVE yOUR SELF to BE, the BEautiFull, LOVing Earth Angel YOU ARE.

Go on….ya KNOW ya wanna!! & YA KNOW what….YOU DESERVE to!

LOVE SELF NOW

YOU ARE ONEderFull!

Radiating LOVE
Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein
roni
@radiate